You Deserve a Relationship That Feels Connected, Fulfilling, and Safe

You’re tired of having the same fight over and over again, only to sweep it under the rug, hoping things will magically improve.

You miss the closeness you once had with your partner, but conversations about sex, intimacy, and emotional needs feel impossible.

Maybe it’s been weeks, months, or even years since you’ve truly felt heard, seen or understood in your relationship.

And now, here you are.

Searching for answers, hoping that a couples therapist near me or a sex therapist near me can help you experience something different.

Good news. you’re in the right place.

 

I’m an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Couples Counselor in Maryland and Pennsylvania.

I specialize in helping couples and individuals navigate intimacy challenges, relationship struggles, betrayal trauma and out-of-control sexual behaviors.

I provide online couples counseling in Pennsylvania and Maryland along with online sex therapy in Pennsylvania and Maryland.

Jan Carey is a couples therapy therapist who provides online couples counseling and online sex therapy in Maryland and Pennsylvania. Looking for the best couples therapist near me? Get started with Jan today!

Through sex therapy and couples counseling, I help my clients:

  • Build deeper emotional and sexual connection

  • Communicate their needs with confidence

  • Rebuild trust after betrayal or disconnection

  • Address anxiety around sex and intimacy

  • Heal from past experiences that impact relationships

Whether you’re looking for a couples therapist or a sex therapist in Maryland or Pennsylvania, my work focuses on helping you feel more confident, connected, and satisfied in your relationships and sex life.

My Approach Revolves Around Creating a Space for Real Healing & (re)Connection

I know that the tenderest feelings, the ones hardest to express, are often the ones that create the most meaningful change.

That’s why I create a therapy space where you can:

  • Speak openly about intimacy, relationships, and personal struggles

  • Feel truly heard—without shame or judgment

  • Get clear, actionable tools to improve communication and connection

  • Explore your relationship patterns with compassion and insight

If you’re searching for a sex therapist in Pennsylvania or a couples therapist in Maryland, I’m so glad you found me.

I’m passionate about supporting couples through intimacy challenges, mismatched desire, or sexual anxiety, to improve communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen emotional and physical connection.

I’d love to support you as you work toward a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with your partner, and yourself.


I help couples and individuals who are:

  • Struggling to communicate effectively and want to feel close, connected, and secure again

  • Feeling disconnected in their intimacy or sex life- whether they’ve lost passion or never truly had it

  • Experiencing anxiety around sex and want to release stress, shame, or fear

  • Having trouble creating or sustaining relationships and want to feel more hopeful about dating

  • People struggling with out-of-control sexual behavior (including porn addiction, compulsive sexual behaviors, or sex addiction) who want to regain control and build healthier connections

  • LGBTQI+ individuals and couples who need a safe, affirming space that honors their identity

  • Men who feel alone or disconnected and are ready to recalibrate their relationships and access closeness and sex again

I believe…

  • How we relate to our partners is deeply influenced by how we connected with caregivers in childhood.

  • Successful relationships require vulnerability—and that’s not always easy.

  • We hurt others when we carry unresolved pain that needs to be tended to.

  • You deserve to have your disappointments heard and your needs met.

  • Therapy isn’t always heavy—sometimes humor and absurdity are part of the healing process.

  • True healing happens in the presence of another who can bear witness to your experience.

 

Education, Certification, Training and license

  • Masters of Social Work, Temple University

  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker Certified (LCSW-C), MD License # 26288/ Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), PA License # CW015790

  • Certificate in Sex Therapy and Sexuality Education from the University of Michigan’s School of Social Work

  • AASECT Certified Sex Therapist

Additional Trainings:

  • The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy

  • Structural Family Therapy

  • Emotionally Focused Therapy

  • Motivational Interviewing

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